Argument in a Relationship

'Shut up!' , 'No! You shut up!'. 'Don't you dare shut me up!.'

Does this always between you and your partner? My My,it's definitely unhealthy. Therefore, today's topic is going to be about: 

What does argument means? Well basically,argument means an oral disagreement. You come out with an idea he does not agree with they way you think, he say it's a go, but you say it's a no. then both of you will start to say this and that even up to a certain extend that both of you get so pissed off with each other and hell breaks lose. That is an example of an unhealthy argument.

Ladies and gentleman, deep down inside both of you love each other, but when anger take control over you, that love just fade away. It's best to handle this thing with full precaution. And yes i have to admit that guys are the main key in an argument. A guy can think better even under emotional stress compared to the opposite sex. That is why guy will play the key role in an argument.

Question: Why does a guy play a big role?

1. Guys are the stronger sex. They can handle a situation better than a girl.
2. Girl tend to follow their emotion rather than guy. Now that is bad huh?
3. Girl have a hard time to control themselves, therefore a guy must be there to calm her down or perhaps coax her. It's rare to see a girl who can really calm herself down without any help.
4. Most of the gentleman can learn to tolerate and being more understanding when they know that his partner is not happy with something.
5. For a guy to coax a girl, hey isn't that sweet?

Having an argument actually is not all bad. But it is actually helping the couple to understand each other more. Sometimes there are actually things that we wish to say but we cannot say it, that word will come out or slip out during  the argumentation process. As long as we avoid critical issue such as family and race, and also we must always give and take. When you have have such a high level of tolerance it will reward you heavenly in the years to come. 
Usually after an argument, couple will tend to say sorry to each other and make up for the things that they did wrong. See? Both of you will get closer, and the love will just BLOOMS! Don't do it too often, IF you argue too often that's a bad sign my friend.

FAQ:

Having an argument,good or bad?

Answer: Yes it is good if we keep it in a proper and not too often. It's bad if its too frequent and no give and take between the two. One of them must know when to stop the argument and patch it back.

My Boyfriend/girlfriend don't want to quit when it comes to an argument.

Answer: One of you will learn sooner or later. But if he or she is so hard head, then it'll be tough. Talk to your partner during a perfect time then speak out what you feel about his/her hardiness.

Argument just will cause damage in the relationship?

Answer: Not really..Just as long as you know how to handle and knowing the limit of the argument. Talk not only about what you're not satisfied of but also talk what is there to be change in order for the relationship to be better. Say something which can make your partner think.

Should I cry during an argument?

Answer: Sure,why not? It'll soften up the other side of the relationship. Put your ego aside for a moment.

So, the conclusion is,argument is good as long as it's healthy, but it's bad and may not be good in a relationship if it's unhealthy. You choose?

Love-
Silencer

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