She has a boyfriend but you still want her!

Okay...So someone emailed me regarding a problem..i am just going to copy paste what he said alright?

Dear Doc,
Currently i'm having a huge crush for my best friend (a female).
We always hang out at the campus and we always have meal together.
At first,i wanted to see her INTEREST LEVEL towards me.
But after i knew that she had a boyfriend. It hurts to the maximum.
There was a day when she open up to me and talk about her boyfriend being all ignorant.
She already gone into a relationship for 2 years. She is a muslim,they believe in karma.
What goes around comes around. Therefore,she doesn't have the courage to dump him.
And even when she asked,the guy is like holding on to her and leave her hanging.
In my point of view,i think there is no point having this kind of boyfriend.
Sometimes i hate her because she don't want to dump her idiotic boyfriend.
Instead,she just keep hanging on and now both of us are getting closer each day.
Is there any hope doc? Her boyfriend is ignorant.He doesn't care about her.
Should i continue on her? Should i give up? Or should me and her just remain as best friends?
I'm 21 years old. And i really want to marry this angel.


I replied:

Hey man,
I know how it feels and i've been through it..it hurts yes i know.Staying in the 'friend zone' for too long might leave you with a scar you would never forget and you will regret.. Yes of course there is hope..Whenever there's darkness,light will always be there. Don't forget about your Creator..He can help you..a lot!
First of all,from what i see..you are not giving up on her..thus,there is still hope of course.
Hope only disperse whenever you give up on something or someone.
Second,have you ever asked her to dump her boyfriend?
Well,i hope not because that will give her a bad impression of you.
What i can suggest you to do,my brave gentleman ,is :
-Play slow. Do not force her to do something and go with her flow.
-Have patients. Wait for the right moment,if she is meant for you,and if she truly loves you,she will figure her way out. Because ladies do not want to end up marrying the wrong person.
-Show to her that you are far better than her current boyfriend. BUT do not over do it. She will think you're being a jerk.
-Be there for her most of the time because since her boyfriend is being ignorant,she will choose the man who always by her side through ups and downs.
-Listen to her feelings and wipe her tears.be sweet and also show that you care a lot about her.
-do not show your interest level,act cool. it's never wrong to say 'i love you' every night because she will feel loved by you.
-As time passes by,show her your confident and leadership skills. Show her that you can be the alpha male.
-Always make her comfortable and smile!
-She will eventually see that you're the right guy instead of her boyfriend.

We learn to be mature through the pain we learned in life.Whatever she says as her final answer,respect it.because if you rebel against it,you'll lose every single hope there is. If you learn to accept,there is still 1% she is still counting on you to be the one for her.

For any question in your love life,please do email me at kaminaridestiny@gmail.com