Personal Space and Time-Out
First of all, we all know that personal space is so so so important.
Space must be divided according to priority and also which comes first basis. That is the thing that we all need to know. Personal space is much more important. It won't tear a relationship apart but it will get you and your partner closer by the moment without even you noticing it!
Assumption:
1) Some people no matter guy or girl might think that PERSONAL SPACE is being away from each other till break up occurs.
2) They always assume when partner says they need personal space, typical guy/girl will think that they are actually getting bored of you. (yeah whatever)
3) Personal Space = Never to be seen again.
Well readers, i personally would like to say that all of these 3 assumptions are wrong! Totally wrong! What do you need to actually know is:
Benefits of personal space:
-Personal space could really make a gap between the two of you, but this will make both of you miss each other even more when you don't see each other too much. The feeling of missing someone is getting stronger each day whenever he/she does not see you.
-Create space for friends and also family. Did you all know that Family comes first and more than any other human beings in your life? The list of priorities should be this way.
Family, Best Friends, then only Girlfriend/Boyfriend.
Surprised? Execta!!
Why? Because Family and Best Friends would never ever leave you. (Unless you screw things up, of course.) You priority percentage should be 50% on family 28% Best Friends and 22% Partner.
If you're married, then your partner is your family. Duh!
-Both you and your partner will feel the need to see each other.
Ever heard the word 'Something too much is not too good'?
It's true,when you see each other too much,you'll get bored easily. It's just a matter of time before a break up occurs. Therefore,please i repeat please,have some personal for each other.
Imagine, you're drinking a glass of apple juice every single day of your life, the first week maybe its nice to have it and you'll enjoy. Second week,still okay. But when it comes to the third week, you'll be happy to get an orange juice. Get what i mean?
-Personal space gives you the feeling of having to contact him/her. And it makes the word 'I Love You' and 'I Miss You' ten times much more valuable. Instead of you see her each day,and wishing the same old thing,its just...too old... What if you do not see her everyday,and then you say, 'hey dear,did you know i miss you?'.
See the difference? You really meant it! Something that comes within the purest heart and love!
Conclusion:
See,the space and time-out factor is important in a relationship.
I've already put up example and also few facts and benefits for all reader to consider or maybe apply. Because I've been through a relationship where i always stick to the girl.. And honestly,it was not that nice.. When i applied personal space concept..The relationship gets better each single day. Go ahead, Try it out.
But remember, Personal space does not mean you don't need to contact that person for weeks! it's a maximum of 3 days limit will do!
Spread the Love!
-Silencer
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